Every (Wo)man should Know

Every woman should know
how to live alone
even if she doesn't like it...

Every woman should have
enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to...

A woman should have
something perfect to wear
if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A woman should have
a youth she's content to leave behind....

A woman should have
a past juicy enough
that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....

A woman should have
one friend who always makes her laugh
And one who lets her cry...

A woman should have
a good piece of furniture
not previously owned by anyone else in her family...

A woman should have
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored...

A woman should have
a feeling of control over her destiny...

Every woman should know
how to fall in love
without losing herself..

Every woman should know
how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend
without ruining the friendship...

Every woman should know
when to try harder
and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

Every woman should know
that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

Every woman should know
that her childhood may not have been perfect
but it’s over...

Every woman should know
what she would and wouldn't do for love...
Every woman should know
whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally...

Every woman should know
where to go... be it to her best friend's kitchen table... or a charming inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing...

Every woman should know
what she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a month...and a year...