"Termination is a quick temporary solution...with permanent consequences...and like i said Guess God knew this child before he or she was formed so who am i? I would rather put up with judgement from man and work on fixing myself as umama..."

-Kelly Northon* (One of my closest, wise friends)

As much as I am christian and SDA nogal, I do suffer having a lack of faith. My friend and I were having a discusion about falling pregnant and since we are 25years and have a plan for our lives, we could'nt afford having babies.
But the question obviously popped up, that what if you were to fall pregnant without you having to actually plan it? In my personal capacity, I told her, I dont know if I would be brave enough to keep nor terminate. But now a woman of my faith and understanding- i bshouldnt even be debating this. I am just suppose to accept my fate and not even consider terminating the baby. But honestly, that thought crosses my mind more than once. I honestly don't know what I will decide.

Then I refered the question to her: and the quote above is what she told me. That definately shifted my mind set- and changed my whole life. but what she said, I am definately goingto keep the baby under any harsh circumstance.
But I would like to add to her answer (Which I turned into a quote):

'Termination is a quick temporary solution...with permanent consequences...and like i said Guess God knew this child before he or she was formed so who am i? I would rather put up with judgement from man and work on fixing myself as umama... than from God and be deemed a murderer!" -Kunoichi and Kelly Northon*


P.S. *Changed my friends identity for her protection